People just love to talk. We communicate with each other all day long through text messages, emails, phone calls and face-to-face interactions. Language is a powerful communication tool that enables us to connect, to share ideas and to deepen understanding. We are social creatures and by talking to one another, we feel more connected.

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Interestingly, the types of conversations we choose are astonishingly consistent. There is a recurring theme in most of what we say.  Studies show that hands down, our favorite topic of communication is, you guessed it, ourselves. As Scientific Americanpoints out:

Why, in a world full of ideas to discover, develop, and discuss, do people spend the majority of their time talking about themselves? Recent research suggests a simple explanation: because it feels good.

According to a study, talking about oneself activates the same areas of the brain that light up when eating good food, taking drugs and even having sex. Simply put, self-disclosure is gratifying.  It is a neurological buzz.

Who talks more and why is less clear. Stereotypes lead us to believe that women enjoy chatting more than men. According to science it’s more nuanced than that. A test conducted to explore social interaction patterns found that women speak only slightly more than men in professional and social settings, and only when the number of people involved in the conversation is less than six.  In large groups, men tend to dominate conversation.

 

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